i've been reading the owner's and operator's guide to men. it's been a really revealing read. I know for a fact that I don't ask for what I want and that at some point, I lost focus on how to make myself feel sexy and desirable.
I find myself longing for something more. I find myself fantasizing about other relationships which are rediculous because they're total fantasy. I think i'll follow mama's advice: pleasure yourself and ask for what you want. hopefully it will perk up the relationship i'm currently in.
anyone else read the O&O? what were your thoughts? did you try some of her tips? how'd it go?